So I’ve known my friends with benefits for about three years, and we talk on and off. When the reverse met, you would tell me I’m the most beautiful woman he’s ever seen. Though sometimes I think he holds his feelings back because once I was supposed to see his friends, and I blew him off. Then he seemed very angry with me and told me I would never meet his friends or his roommates.
When he’s drunk a lot, he’ll tell me that he loves me or whisper it to me. One time when he was drunk, he was with someone else, and he called me like 10 times and said all he wanted to see was me, and left that person to see me at night. Sometimes, though, when he’s sober, he’ll ignore me or talk about other girls rubbing in my face, even though I don’t bring up other guys. I never really react to it, but I don’t understand why he constantly does it.
He said stuff to me in the past when we were sleeping together. I thought he never wanted me to leave, but I’m not allowed to leave, and that he always wants to be with me. He said "I love you" a couple of times over the years when we don’t see each other super often. I don’t know whether to take him seriously or if he’s playing, cause sometimes he’ll play it off like he doesn’t remember what he said.
Do you take drunk? I love you seriously when a guy has said I love you in the past when drunk did they mean it or how do you think the situation will work out?
